Calm Joyful Mom

A 90-day 1x1 Coaching Intensive to help

working mothers stress less and be more present

You have a beautiful family and you are passionate about your career. 

In theory you have it all.

But in fact, you feel sucky.

The working Mom balancing act is not working out at all.

Your reactions to life’s stressors are tense and connections with those you love feel distanced and unhealthy.

You worry that you are missing out on motherhood. And that your kids are missing out on you.

You panic that these are moments you will never get back.

I've been there. I hear you.


It feels impossible.

You tell yourself that it all comes down to having too much to do, in too little time.

You miss your kids and your significant other.

You watch yourself rush from one thing to another in a guilt-plagued balancing act. 

Life has become a series of rushed box-ticking repetitive days: 

Get the kids ready. Get yourself ready (sort of). Drop them off. Go to work. Leave work. Pick the kids up. Get the kids down. Finish work. Drop dead for the night. Sleep? Crawl out of bed. Start all over again.  

And for that short moment before you fall asleep, you wish it could be different. 

When you’re at work, you’re worrying about family. And when you’re at home, you’re stressed about work.  

You need caffeine to wake you up and keep you going. You need wine to help you relax and sleep at night.

Maybe you felt like you were doing ok, treading water with one kid, but now with two or three, you are drowning.

You feel like you’re constantly in melt down mode. Like your head is about to explode.

You feel guilty. Resentful. Short-tempered.  

You don't recognize yourself.

You don't understand your kids.

Your significant other doesn't feel all that significant anymore. 

Every day is a grind.

No joy. No thriving.


You are in survival mode. 

This is not what you expected from motherhood. It was not what you signed up for.

And the best news...this is not what working motherhood needs to feel like, either. 


Take a moment to imagine what life would feel like if...


you felt 100% at work when you are at work...


you were more present and connected with your kids...


there was a sense of spaciousness between your "to do’s" allowing you to get a little bit of lovin’ time in with yourSELF...


you felt in love again...


Not only in love with your significant other, but with life! 

Imagine if you could end each day grateful that you have modeled calm, confidence, joy and presence to your family.

No regrets. Just a sense of ease, fulfillment and inner peace.

Guess what?

It's possible.

My name is Alexandra Hughes and I know too well the challenges of trying to be everything to everyone. 

When I became a Mom, motherhood chewed me up, swallowed me whole and then spit me out as an unrecognizable, mad, crazy woman.

The weight of my responsibility for young lives, my lack of freedom, my ever confused identity, my altered relationship with the man I loved, the isolation from friends and social events that had been such an active part of my life – these drove me to the brink of insanity.

It was the confusion, the exhaustion, the frustration, the resentment, the overwhelm of it all.

And the guilt of not getting it right. Oh the guilt!

The myth. The romantic myth that motherhood is blissful. The myth that as working Moms we can have it all and be there for everyone.

It did not take very long for that myth to come crashing down on my sanity and self-confidence.

After a generous maternity leave (where I nearly went bonkers!) I went back to work. It would be better that way. The financial burden would lessen. My mind would be challenged. I’d have adults to talk to. I’d come home happy and fulfilled.

But here’s what actually happened: Life became a guilt-plagued balancing act. A box ticking repetitive groundhog day. 

I was miserable, stressed, overwhelmed and completely disconnected from myself and my family.

And so when baby #3 came along, he brought along with him a moment of awakening. Maternity leave shone a mirror on what I was missing.

My high-strung-hamster-wheel-guilt-plagued lifestyle was getting in the way of the most important moments and relationships in my life.


So I stopped. I started to learn to stay calm and enjoy the ride;

I started to re-learn motherhood.

Fast forward 6 years...I have retrained as a professional life coach, founded my practice and an online business while raising 3 beautiful children as lead parent, and managing a household of 5. All navigated through 2 international moves!

And I've done this from a place of love and presence. No regrets.

Life hasn't been a piece of cake and it gets messy and stressy sometimes, but I've consciously designed a life where I feel healthy, energized, present and in love and connection with those around me.

And today I have tapped into my personal experience and my professional training to help dozens of mothers from around the world to do the same - to create lives they love (and that love them back!). 

The Calm Joyful Mom coaching program is a 90-day intensive designed for busy working women who want to make a mark in their careers while also being positively present in the lives of their children.

"Her work is transformational...

Before working with Alex, the biggest challenges I felt as a mother was this feeling of being torn between spending time with my children and in my professional world. I felt drained and depleted and often blamed my children for that feeling -- when it was often my own ambivalence that was causing the feeling.

Alex’s coaching is helping me to manage overwhelm, stress and exhaustion. She has helped me to experience more joy as a mother; to remember how deep my love runs for my children and how important it is for me to be a role model of resilience for them too.

Her work is transformational in that she helps me to dig deeper into depleting and distracting patterns I hold, and to focus on creating new habits, thoughts, and coping skills that help me make better choices from moment to moment and live more in alignment with who I am and what I believe in."

- Rachel, President & CEO of an environmental nonprofit organization, and mother of two beautiful boys

What you can accomplish in the Next 90 Days?


Our time together is tailored to help you to redesign life (inside and out) in a guilt-free way so that you can experience more intentionality, ease and wellbeing in all areas of your life.  

The Calm Joyful Mom framework includes time-saving, energy boosting tricks of the trade that will allow us to systematically co-create (against which I will hold you gently accountable for), the following without draining you further.


A personalized self-loving well-being regime. Beginning with the basics, we will design a holistic wellness regime that supports healthy energy levels, more balanced living and resilience. You'll stop feeling exhausted and have enough energy to make it all the way through a peaceful bedtime!


A weekly calendar that reflects your values and priorities. Get ready to embrace intentionality, balance and beautiful boundaries. Get ready for a productive and fulfilling career PLUS quality time with your family, quality (guilt-free) time to take care of yourself PLUS extra time for that much-needed date night! 


Effective, easy and efficient family management systems. Busy Mamas need strong and supportive scaffolding to ensure they make the most of their precious energy and time. You will learn to set up systems that help you to use your time so that you can be present and ensure there is flow and ease to your daily grind. And you end up doing less of what you hate and more of what you love!


Mindfulness strategies, tools and techniques to support you to not only manage your stress, to improve your productivity levels and to connect and be fully present with those you love most. You will stop feeling like you are constantly in melt-down mode and have the tools to stop going nuclear on your kids. Get ready to get it done, be in the moment, to be and feel the love!  


This coaching commitment may feel like a lot of extra work. (I hear you!) Be reassured that for every hour you invest in this journey, you will get 3 quality hours back (at least)! Our first step together will be modifying your existing calendar to create time (and boost the energy), so that you find the guilt-free time to create the life you want and envision (and if you don't know what that is, we'll figure it out together!)

Get ready for higher quality living!


"I would recommend Alex to anyone who feels overwhelmed by life right now...

The biggest problems I faced before I entered the coaching circle were feeling stressed and overwhelmed by all I felt I HAD to do and not feeling I was in the right space to appreciate my life and family. I also felt I was missing out on precious time with my son for fun and growth.

After working with Alex, a clear vision of the woman and mother I want to be was uncovered. Alex not only helped bring this vision to light, she worked with me to develop the concrete steps to make it all a reality.

Alex helped me to look at myself with kinder eyes, to give up the things that don't matter (like perfection!) and to start focusing on what I can do to be happy."

-Sara, Mother & Executive Assistant & Office Manager, Washington, D.C

Your Calm Joyful Mom Experience

Calm Joyful Mom is a 90-day 1x1 Mentorship Coaching Intensive for busy Moms ready to commit to creating lives they love

It is designed for busy working Moms who can spare 45 minutes during their lunch hours plus implementation time - to commit to creating a life you love.


Here's what it looks like...

  • Deep Dive Strategy Session
  • We'll begin with a 60-75 minute deep dive into your life. This  intensive will help us to flesh out your vision of an ideal working Mom experience. We'll examine your working life and your home life, and all the moving parts in between. We will identify your major challenges and what is holding you back from living a life you love, as well as determining how you will get to where you want to be in 6 months time.
  • Eleven 1x1 Coaching Sessions
  • We'll have 11 45-minute weekly coaching sessions over the 90 day period {via Skype}. During each session we will systematically focus on the gaps ensuring that our four Calm Joyful Mom pillars are incorporated into your life to support you in creating a live you love.
  • Direct Access to Alex
  • You'll get direct text, voicemail and email access to Alex between sessions to help you when you hit those challenges or find yourself crying in a closet.
  • Personalized Resource Toolkit.
  • Over our time together, we will earmark the strategies and tools that work for you and compile them so that you can have a one-stop-shop resource kit to reach into and ensure you've got what you need, even after our 90 days is over.

And here's what you walk away with:


♥     a more spacious, prioritized schedule to do what you love with those you love

♥    a clearer more focused mind that supports increased efficiency and productivity at home and at work

♥    established family management systems to ensure that getting out the door in the morning is no longer the shit show it used to be; and that bedtime is about cuddles and connections, and not power struggles

♥    simple, practical stress & anger management strategies to help you keep your calm and prevent hot head Mom moments

♥    do-able mindfulness techniques and relaxation tools to support calmer responses, non-judgemental self-talk, improved  emotional intelligence and more restful nights

♥    a happy and healthier you, including more energy and positivity coupled with a powerful woman's attitude and perspective

Total Calm Joyful Mom Investment: $1997*

 *payment plans available, but paying in full has its advantages, namely paying less*

"My biggest challenge before working with Alex was to manage life’s difficult moments as a mother with love. More specifically, I wished so much not to be pegged to my child's tantrum, my child's anger.

Alex’s coaching support gave me the ability and tools to come back to my center, to my inner being, where everything is alright.
I found it difficult to observe myself in the middle of the crises; to be able to identify what is going on in my body and mind.

Working with her helped me to open the path of presence and non-judgmental observation. I am walking on this path now.

I appreciated most the connection I had with Alex. The space of trust and work that we shared.

Our sessions were like a breeze of fresh and warm air. I can recommend to all mothers - especially those who do not have a judge-free compassionate mothers circle around."

- Silvia

Who is Calm Joyful Mom for?


Soulful heart-driven working mothers who are not willing to accept that motherhood is sacrifice and an exhausting daily grind. They want want more from motherhood - more connection, more energy, more joy and more time to do what they love with who they love. 


Savvy professional mothers (entrepreneurs welcome!) who are committed to the work they do but are feeling too stretched and too guilty to enjoy it and thrive. Mamas ready to say goodbye to guilt-fed surviving and ready to say hello to guilt-free thriving!


Smart action taking mothers who are fed up of saying “It’ll get better when…” and are ready to roll up their sleeves and invest in upgrading their lives by co-creating and implementing realistic tools and strategies that will transform their family and work lives, their relationships and their well being.


Are you ready to find some clarity and flow between the demands in your life so that you don’t feel like you’re missing out on being a Mom or in your career! 


Then fill out your Calm Joyful Mom Application now and get ready to grab your salad and have our weekly coaching lunch dates!

Once you submit your application, you’ll receive confirmation that we’ve received it. If you do not receive an email confirmation, write

I’m excited to review your application and to work with you personally.

With love and deep appreciation,




Applications Now Open for March 2017!

(4 Spaces available)

Total Calm Joyful Mom Value:  $3,000

Total Calm Joyful Mom Investment: $1997

*payment plans available, but paying in full has its advantages, namely paying less*